20 creative challenges to make this week Shine!

I recently released a book on embracing a new perspective on creativity called Embracing The Spark: A Simple Guide for Using Creativity to Live Brilliantly.

Soon, I will be holding a couple workshops to play with some of the tools in the book so that people can start implementing some amazing and joyful changes in their lives. The first workshop will be in Ft. Myers, Florida at The Mystical Moon this Sunday, April 12th, 2015 at 1pm. The second one is being held in Naples at Goddess I Am on Saturday, May 23rd, 2015 at 1pm. Hopefully one of these days will work for those who would like to attend. I will have books with me and be doing book signing on these days as well. Feel free to print out one of the flyers from the images at the bottom of this blog.

Tonight, I was sitting here making a list of creative challenges I could give myself for the week, based on teachings of applying creativity the way it is explained in the book and other classes I am currently exploring. That's when I had the idea to share that list with all of you. Feel free to use this list to lighten up your week as well and share anything exciting that may come up for you! You know as I travel my path, anything that comes up worth sharing with you, I share, and will do so in more of the blogs to come! Happy Creating!

1. Discover something new about yourself!

2. Concoct insanely good compliments to give to people-- Because of my reluctance to receive compliments, I often withhold giving them in fear to make other people feel the way I feel when I get them. That ends now.

3. Share a dessert or meal with a friend or loved one.

4. Give a person a hug you don't normally embrace that way.

5. Imagine you are having a conversation with your heart and say something loving to it.

6. Nurture your inner child by doing something you used to do when you were younger. Color, dance, play hide and seek, a board or card game or a game of twister.

7. Journal about something going on in your life, whether it's just a word document in your computer or a specific journal you use. It can even be a voice recording in your phone. Make sure to date it. You may want to know when it was later.

8. Pick a character from a movie or a book and act like them during a conversation with a friend. Who doesn't like talking like a pirate? Hee hee.

9. Devise a sneak attack "Boo!" on someone close to you. Please do not do this to someone with a heart condition or anywhere near ice or stairs. Just keep it simple, clean fun.

10. Visit sunset and build something like a sandcastle or bury a friend in the sand.

11. Listen to a new perspective of a belief you have and try to conceive something within the perspective rather than disagree, correct, or change it.

12. Dance- listen to music that moves you and dance standing up, sitting down, or use your imagination.

13. Embark on a journey, even if it is the neighboring town or even only a couple of hours, and do one thing for each aspect of your emotional, physical and spiritual selves while on that journey. (Three actions total.)

14. Initiate a conversation with a stranger. Hint- you can start by giving one of those insanely good compliments from earlier. Double creativity points!

15. Day-dream about some form of abundance coming to you. This doesn't have to be financial, but can be abundance in any form such as chocolate!

16. Love more.

17. Set in motion a dream you have had. Remember even baby steps move forward!

18. Make your favorite meal.

19. Organize one area in your house that makes you even slightly uncomfortable. Is it just me, or do I have many of these, like books piling up the wrong way on bookshelves, or craft supplies that are overflowing onto the floor from my spur of the moment rummaging. How about the old bills I never know what to do with once they're paid-- save or shred??

20. Start by doing just one of these creative deeds or making a list of you own inspired by these!

I'm looking forward to finalizing the class preparation for this weekend among taking on as many of these other ideas as I go along. I should be able to incorporate at least one. No pressure these days, if I do one this week with the intent to be more creative for the sake of all, I've done better than last week, and that is good. 

If these are too basic for any of you, feel free to flow where your heart leads you. These are definitely specific ones I would like to work on for myself, but explore the more if you so desire! Have fun. Be playful. Life is too short to go through the motions of the same ol' day after day routine. Playing with any of these ideas will raise your vibration, no doubt and bring you a little more laughter, a few more smiles, and a lot more joy.

from my heart to yours,
jodi

Hope to see you all soon! Possibly one of the workshops! Here are the flyers below.

What's Black and White and Heart All Over?

 

The reason why I'm sharing all of this is because another friend posted an article on social media today, (http://hellobeautiful.com/2015/03/22/why-black-celebrities-should-be-black-activists/about), about how the "New Black" is doing more harm than good. The examples of people that represent the "New Black" were people such as Pharrell, Raven, Common and somebody else, I'm not real familiar with celebrity names. Those of you who know me, know I'm a faces, not names, kinda gal so I'll apologize ahead of time. Anyway, it made me think of a recent fight that escalated quickly between the two hearts of my children and began the journey of this blog. That being said, this is a lengthy post, but stick around to see how it all ties in.

 

This weekend was the first time the kids and I have had the opportunity to travel completely alone. I love hanging with the kids for a few days without all of the usual daily responsibilities and nothing but time to enjoy each other. As I've said, my children have always been two of my greatest teachers. Really, my whole family has. It is through these closest relationships we learn the most about ourselves if we are paying attention. In learning about ourselves, we also get to learn about our relationships with the world around us. What happens in smaller scale usually always occurs on a larger scale.

 

The kids chose to visit an amusement park for their vacation. Sure the idea of rollercoasters is an exciting idea, but they forget how much work all the walking and waiting can be. Waiting in line can frustrate the young ones especially when technology has empowered society's ability to live in a world with much more instant gratification than when I was younger. They began to fight over who was "right" and who was "wrong." Over what? I don't even know. It was a typical sibling argument full of...

 





"you’re wrong."
"no you’re wrong."
"No you’re wrong."
"No you’re wrong!"
"NO You!”

Back and forth they bickered over who was right, with their tone escalating as their claims against one another volleyed between the two hearts. Two children that love each other caught up in the dance that only angered one another and turned to tears before I could jump in. It was that fast and furious!

This is when I turned to my daughter and said-- "it doesn't matter if the other person knows you are right, but mind how your heart feels right now." The need to be right and understood can be more caustic to the individual heart, than letting go of the fight for the sake of taking care of your own heart. Like the St. Francis prayer says, "it is better to understand, than to be understood."

Another unexpected event that has occurred in the past couple weeks while I have been on hiatus from publicly writing (I am always journaling) is an old friend coming back into my life pretty regularly after fifteen years. I am extremely grateful for our chats. He has helped me immensely learn about myself and some of my interactions I have with the opposite sex.

For those men who know me, you know I'm extremely guarded. Many of my male friends have tried to point out how abruptly and forcefully I will put men into what is called the "friend box." Over the course of the talks with this male friend, I have been able to recognize many things about this protective attitude with clarity. However the one thing that has helped me realize it was in my benefit to start healing and letting go of this shield was the recognition that the men that are most likely to try to take the time to break out of the box and past my walls are the ones I have been specifically trying to protect myself from. 

After this realization, we looked back at my relationships over the last ten years and we were able to prove the efficacy of this theory. With all the validation I received from those relationships, it only perpetuated this behavior to continue out of a growing and now confirmed fear. Now I have two choices. I can continue forward as I have been, or I can let go of the fight and need to control out of fear, mind my heart, love my heart, and move forward in trust and understanding. 

Here’s where it all starts tying in. If  the two hearts of my children can escalate over nonsense in 60 seconds, imagine the damage that can be caused by millions of hearts over something as real and huge as civil rights. If we continue trying to move forward by fighting, what is it that are really creating for ourselves? 

At some point, we have to be willing to let go of the fight. We have to recognize that by choosing to continue the struggle, we ultimately deny our own hearts love. The fight escalates because of the desire to be understood and the desire to be right. If society desires change outside of themselves in the world around them, without individual responsibility, we will only create walls and barriers, not necessarily better circumstances. This is much like what I have been doing to myself. Back and forth we go. It's an argument that can’t be won between those fighting, because those fighting aren’t listening. They’re trying to be understood (by pushing outside), not understand (by embracing what’s within- faith and love). 

The article targets four public figures that have recently claimed to be laying down their societal labels and focusing on embracing their strengths, their talents, and their individuality within a collective human group. Now maybe this hasn’t been expressed perfectly, but the message has been there if we try to understand. The wording in the statements being attacked is actually perfect in one way. If we stop to think about it for a moment, it shows us how easily words can keep us separated. Words, labels and lack of understanding are just keeping us separate. 

Yes, things have been said, but let us not hold onto a stage of a man’s or woman’s growth as permanent. This life is not a destination, it is a journey. These four human beings are sharing their journey and process with us because they are always in the spotlight. As I learned over the course of writing my book, even by the time I went back to edit the original manuscript, words and concepts needed to be tweaked with my growth. Now that the book is published, I continue to grow and tweak the concepts within myself. There is no permanence, only change.

The persuasion made in the article (among many recent articles) is that by theses celebrities coming out and sharing their personal journey and process with us, they are somehow denying their heritage and viewed as "afraid to continue the work of those whose blood, sweat and tears were shed so that future generations can endure." But is this really what they are doing? Are they really trying to blend cowardly into society, or are they actually embracing their hearts, looking for solutions that can only occur within, and starting to stand out the same as civil rights activists have in the past?  

Let's look at those that came in the forefront of the good fight. They walked on the same ground, with more of the same inequalities and made a difference in the hearts of many; hearts of all labels and variations. They led us by example. They did this not with a fight, but with heart; not with violence, but with love; not with an emphasis on lack, but a dream of abundance; with courage and hard work, not with entitlement, privilege, or ease. They stood before many in the name of equality, so that we could stand together in brotherhood. They helped us recognize that every one of us, divided by sex, race and faith were equally as significant, beautiful and worthy, when the world tells us otherwise.

We are each born with these same abilities. If you ask the many that have made it from hardship to abundance, they will all agree it was the heart, not the labels, nor the money or any of the outside attributes that drove their cause. It is through the heart, we each have the ability to do as those that have led the way have done- love ourselves and our fellows, work hard, and courageously follow our own dreams. 

I do not live in denial that racism exists. It is my understanding that it still does. However, the current escalating struggle and means of only further separation is not working. This is not about trying to forget the past. It is about embracing the future built on a solid foundation from our past. 

This is me choosing to focus on the abundance of the dream and less on the lack. This is me moving forward just as those that have set the example for all of us. Taking personal responsibility is not the easy road. Those who do the work, know this. It is an inside job, for we control no other man or woman but ourselves. This is me having a choice and I am choosing my own heart over the fight, so that in turn, I can love yours. Through the heart, we can accomplish the task. Individually we can make a difference, one heart at a time, and together we will be the change. We may not say everything perfectly every time, but the love will reveal itself through our actions. There is no stronger or mightier force than love and it will only perpetuate us into greatness beyond our fondest aspirations. 

Much love to you all. Namaste'

                  jodi

( photograph by garrytutte.com )

 

 

The Step Ahead of The Struggle

Some of you may have seen my post recently about forcing my kids into creative mode through boredom. It works! My daughter has started to catch on without the unnecessary discomfort. If I ask her if she is bored while she gazes aimlessly around the house, she often replies “no, I just haven’t figured out what I want to do yet.”

Yes! I love this. I know she gets it by her response. Every day will be what she decides it will be. It can be a gift, or it can be a drag. Before she gets to a breaking point, she will often ask me for ideas or as I talk about in my book, “call for back-up.”

Asking for help isn’t weakness. It's creative. It’s creative when we act on the solutions found between minds working together on ideas. Both are constructive actions that weave colorful threads into the reality of the world around us.

My son on the other hand is a little more difficult in these situations. His typical solution to boredom is shopping. Does that sound familiar to anyone? He usually thinks the answer to all his problem is something else. This is when I get to step in and say “no.” I have six more years to get this point across before he doesn’t need to ask me and can get to the store himself, so wish me luck!

Spirit has had his best interest at heart of course and some of this lesson came in for him over the holiday season. Nearly every gift or “thing” he received for his birthday and Christmas this year either was lost, broke, missing pieces, or hasn’t even shown up yet! I must admit he has handled it with grace and understanding because to a ten year old, this could have been cause for a complete meltdown and pity party. It hasn’t been. He became more grateful for what he does have and has been more creative with activities like origami, building forts, and playing outside with friends.

The point is we don’t have to get hit with a lesson this extreme, into an uncomfortable situation, or bored before we make the decision to get creative because it’s the only remaining option. We have the ability to head off many of these scenarios by staying in habits that are creative.

One might ask what my son could have done to head off his lesson. Well, let me share with you what happened around this time. Originally, he asked for snow for Christmas. My kids have yet to experience this natural wonder first-hand living in Florida. Obviously, I explained if I could pull off this opportunity to go discover and experience snow, I wouldn’t be able to afford to put things under the tree as well. At first he was totally okay with this, but then something shifted as we got closer to the holiday. He changed his mind. He wanted stuff he thought would bring him more happiness. But did it? One was creative, the other not so much. Can you recognize why this is?

Soon, Embracing The Spark: A Simple Guide For Using Creativity To Live Brilliantly will be available for purchase. It will provide all the tools one needs to use this holistic approach to creativity as a way of living and transforming daily life into a personal masterpiece. These tools will not only help each reader move more in alignment with a vibration that benefits one’s authentic self but also benefit the world touched by the creative actions of the reader. I am so very excited to get the message out in a language that can be understood outside of my own brain this time! Let’s all thank my editor, Karen, for this one! I am so very grateful for her hard work and powerful questions.

Take the time to explore creativity in your life. Any idle time we find in our busy schedules is our heart's way of pulling us back to this natural state. Head off the hard lessons and wasted time. Use the time to do what would most benefit not only your vibration, but to the collective vibration. Explore, dance, walk, sing, write, discover, play, reconnect with friends, share, cook something new, learn something new, etc. The possibilities are really endless!

 

                            Embrace the Spark!

                                        love, jodi

 

 

 

LIghting Our Path With Creativity!

 

 

Have you ever experienced that moment, when your path aligns and you feel like your purpose begins to expose itself with greater clarity? This recently happened for me again. Little bits continue to reveal themselves as I align my energy and actions with a more natural perspective of creativity I will be sharing in the re-release of my edited and expanded book, Embracing The Spark: How Creativity is Shaping Our Reality.

This blog is basically me meditating while I am writing. It is an example of how the imagination can guide us, using intuition and information connected to the higher self. The heart lights the path when the mind can cloud or dim the same light. By writing out my thoughts in this manner, a new revelation came to me in regards to my journey. Enjoy!

It’s as if you have been traveling along the journey at night, and as the sun slowly begins to rise. Even though you may not be able to see the sun, the light finds you through the trees, revealing a little more of the road ahead.

Negative beliefs quickly attempt to extinguish this new, fiery enthusiasm and hope. The thoughts of many who walk near me in this forest, and many who have walked before me, leave a lingering energetic impression on my belief systems. Knowing this, I begin to sort through them, looking to find my own compass. It is not lost. It is only covered up in this bag of unnecessary belongings.

Gratefully, I quickly find the compass, because this new path has led me to a dense and overgrown area of the woods. I can tell it has been traveled through before, but it is all completely new to me and definitely has had a lot less traffic. The brush has grown up tall and thick. I have no idea where to begin. I trust I have been led here for a reason, so I know there must be a way for me to move forward.

Determined, I bend back the first branch which blocks my path and I am face-to-face with spider. She has started to fade into sleep after an evening of feeding and diligently working on her own intricate home she now rests upon. Although I love her energy, I much prefer to stay out of her personal space. A moment of hesitation and fear creep into my thoughts again. Can I move forward through the unknown without disrupting her or will she be upset with my intrusion? She notices my eyes gazing at her, and turns her body to face me.

She is a mirror for me. Here she is, at the entrance of my path, representing one of my greatest gifts (creativity) and one of my greatest fears (spiders). There is no coincidence she has come to be my teacher. It is here I am able to recognize for the first time it was never her I was afraid of. It was of the gift itself. Spider was only holding the space for me to recognize it. As my eyes soften from this new awareness, she scuttles off to the edge of her web to let this lighter version of me pass by.

I have found the entrance. The sun continues to rise and the path before me is brought a little more into the light.

I am so grateful that tears of joy, rather than tears of pain, begin to flow from my being. They have become more common place in my life these days. I wish the same for each and every one of you. I know the reflection each one of us sees can be a beautiful.

As I discovered from spider during this writing meditation, even my gifts can be scary. When I wrote about the negative beliefs that come in, I am referring to ones attached to this. For example, I fear if I fully embrace my creativity and the beauty I see all around me, others may perceive me as living in a fantasy world. Heck, some of them already do! “How dare I talk about how great and grand reality can be when there is so much discord going on in the world right now?”

That’s just it! I know everything we can imagine can be real. Energy grows where attentions goes. By me focusing my efforts and energy in the areas that make the living experience a positive one, I am contributing more positively to the whole. As I continue to embrace my creativity, which by nature is always building, I can participate by helping build the new world. We all can participate in building the new world. All we have to do is believe in the fantasy or construct the beautiful in our own reality, through one creative action at a time. I have been watching this manifest around me in such magnificent ways. This is what I want to share with all of you.

Take today to play with your imagination. What is it whispering to you or showing you? What is your heart inspiring you to build around you? Start there. Did you know starting is an action aligned with creativity? It is possible. It is not fantasy. It is just as real as anything else. True creativity is always building, without hurt or harm to yourself or others. When we align our actions by this definition, we automatically stay out of any area that is destroying the world around us. Your imagination knows, your heart knows. All we need to do is listen.

(Any of the words highlighted in orange are actions that align with creativity. Use these if you are feeling less than creative, or blocked. They will help you begin aligning your energy with the creative.)

Love light and hugs!

     jodi lynn